Last Sunday night’s episode showed Cynthia seeing NeNe for the first time since last season’s reunion.In her Bravo blog, Cynthia explains why she chose to take the high road when it comes to NeNe, and discusses where she stands with her one time friend.
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“When people show you who they are, believe them!” -Maya Angelou
I GOT YOUR BACK
Misery loves company, and I’m no longer making house calls. My dance card is full, and my cup runneth over! One of the last things that I recall saying at the reunion was that I believed my friendship with NeNe had come to the end of the road. I was happy to let bygones be bygones, wish everyone well, and move on with my life. I felt that too many boundaries had been crossed and chose to no longer accept friendships plagued with violations and disrespect. The space apart was a much needed break, and I prayed that time truly would heal all old wounds. That optimism was short lived when my friend (who “loved me like a sister”) felt the need to attempt to publicly disgrace me and imply that I no longer needed to be a part of the show! Now that’s some real sisterly love, right? That one singular moment showed me in HD that NeNe didn’t know the meaning of a real friendship, and yes, the thirst really was real. It was astonishing to watch this woman who “had my back when none of these other bitches did” take the sharpest knife she could find, and gleefully stab me with it with no regard for me or my family. Regrettably for me, I never took heed to the many warnings concerning the wrath of NeNe, because I never truly believed them until I was on the receiving end. It was a very rude awakening, and yet oddly enough the only person I felt sorry for was her.
THE DOG THAT BARKS THE LOUDEST
Time passed and life went on until I found myself seated across the table from my girl, “I was a good friend!” NeNe. Despite everything that had happened, I somehow remained optimistic that we could have the conversation, agree to disagree, have a cocktail, and truly move on. I don’t know what was more stale, the non-conversation that I had with NeNe or the saltines at the table. This clearly was a missed opportunity for both of us to take ownership and responsibility for any of our issues and put them to rest. I knew that seeing NeNe for the first time since the reunion would be emotional, but I chose not to let my emotions take over me. I wasn’t interested in a screaming match or being over talked. I hope NeNe found closure in the conversation that she had with herself.
WWHL: ANNA MAE EATS CAKE
I know that the “Anna Mae” reference from NeNe was meant to be offensive and disrespectful, however I was actually flattered to be compared to one of the world’s most popular entertainers, the queen of rock and roll herself Anna Mae Bullock AKA Tina Turner. Tina Turner is a legendary icon whose success, talent, strength, spirit, beauty, and class (not to mention her fabulous legs) speaks volumes and needs no introduction. My name being mentioned in the same sentence with her is an honor within itself. I hope this was not a failed attempt to make fun of the fact that at one point in Ms. Turner’s largely successful career and life she was a victim of domestic abuse. All jokes aside, wasn’t NeNe herself a victim of domestic abuse as well?
I thought “Bye Girl” actually meant “Bye” and not “Hello Girl” I’m still talking about you! A girl can only dream that one day these words will eventually have merit and true meaning.
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I would like to send my condolences to Todd, Kandi, their entire family and loved ones for the loss of Miss Sharon. She was an amazing woman and will be greatly missed. On behalf of my family and staff, you all are in our prayers.